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4 Ways to Turn Pro in Your Business

4 Ways to Turn Pro in Your Business

“When we turn pro, we give up a life that we may have become extremely comfortable with. We give up a self that we have come to identify with and to call our own.”

~ Steven Pressfield

If you are struggling to see positive and financially sustainable results in your business, theres a good chance you are still treating your business like a hobby rather than showing up for it as a true professional. Before you read on ask yourself if you genuinely feel that you are doing all you can to make your business a success? Are you taking full responsibility for your business and what happens in it?

Early on in my entrepreneurial journey after years of trying to begin with my business, I read a book called Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield (all quotes in this post are from the book) and it changed everything for me. His approach in the book is direct to say the least and in it he compares what he calls the amateur and the pro and refers to his life in two parts, before turning pro and after. Stating in no uncertain terms that “After is better.” I most certainly agree.

Having begun the transition from amateur to pro myself, in this post I want to share with you the four ways in which we can begin to turn pro in our businesses and reap the rewards of doing so, which I might add are not purely financial. 

1. Change your mindset

To turn pro is a decision. And it’s a decision we often avoid taking because in avoiding the decision we also avoid risking failure. It’s a decision to take yourself and your business seriously. Because if we don’t take it seriously, we can’t expect anyone else to. I’ve worked with a lot of people who resist turning pro because they fear that if they truly take their business seriously and show up as powerfully as they possibly can and they fail…then what? Where do you go from there?

So instead of turning pro, we stay small, telling ourselves (often unconsciously) that if I don’t give it my all then when things go wrong I can say, “well I didn’t give it my all so that’s probably why it didn’t work” Can you see how illogical this is? Personally, I like to think that it’s better to have tried and failed than to never have tried at all. What if truly making the decision to turn pro and to show up to your business with all the power you can muster, means that failure no longer has the same hold on you, because as a pro, you turn your failures into opportunities to course correct and grow.

“What happens when we turn pro is, we finally listen to that still, small voice inside our heads. At last we find the courage to identify the secret dream or love or bliss that we have known all along was our passion, our calling, our destiny.”

You might be asking, how can I be sure if I’ve turned pro or not? My answer to that would be when you don’t need to ask the question. You know when the decision has been made and you know in your heart when you have turned. Everything is different. Having said that, turning pro is definitely a journey. Once I made the decision to turn pro it has been a decision that I have returned to, day after day, and year after year and in doing so my professional self has evolved and got stronger over time. I’m showing up more professionally today than I was six months ago for example.

“Turning pro is like kicking a drug habit or stopping drinking. It’s a decision, a decision to which we must re-commit every day.”

Adopting a professional mindset means not allowing self-doubt to derail you. It’s not an absence of self-doubt because that’s highly unlikely, even our greatest heroes suffer from self doubt, but what distinguishes the pro from the amateur is that the pro continues to show up powerfully in spite of her self doubt. Take a moment now to think back to a time when you started a new job. For sure you had some fear and self-doubt going on right? But did you allow it to stop you from showing up and getting on with your job? Of course not, because if you had you would probably have been fired. So regardless of that fear and self-doubt, you got up every morning, you showered and dressed and you got yourself to your place of work on time and ready to work. Why then do so many of us resist this when it comes to our own business, our own calling, our own livelihood?

“The amateur allows his worth and identity to be identified by others. The amateur is tyrannised by his imagined conception of what is expected of him. He is imprisoned by what he believes he ought to think, how he ought to look, what he ought to do, and who he ought to be.”

Turning pro means that your work in the world, the mission you’ve chosen for yourself, the calling you’ve answered all become far more important than the troublesome worries of what others might think.

2. Cultivate pro habits

“The difference between an amateur and a professional is in their habits. An amateur has amateur habits. A professional has professional habits. We can never free ourselves from habits. The human being is a creature of habit. But we can replace bad habits with good ones. We can trade in the habits of the amateur…for the practice of the professional and the committed artist or entrepreneur.” 

To give you some examples of this. The professional keeps regular working hours while the amateur works when she feels like it. The professional maintains habits that support her to reach her fullest potential and the amateur has habits that keep her playing small such as getting lost, comparing herself to others, on Facebook. The professional sets goals and makes plans, bringing much needed intention to the way she spends her hours. The amateur goes with the flow and allows mood and circumstance to dictate her day. The professional prioritizes deep work and focused time and the amateur lives in the shallows, flitting from one shiny thing to the next. 

The professional reviews her progress and seeks feedback so that she can adjust accordingly and make necessary improvements. The amateur is so preoccupied by concerns of rejection that she submits to failure before she’s ever really tried. The professional makes her work in this world a priority. The amateur puts everything and everyone before her business. When discussing what needs to happen to make their business a success, people often say to me, I will get to that soon but first I have friends visiting or I have a festival I’m going to or I have a trip I’m going on and then they wonder why they’re not getting clients.

I have people coming to visit regularly and they all know ahead of time that between 9-6.30pm, Monday to Friday (with the exception of Wednesdays and a 2.5 hour lunch), I work. There are no exceptions to that unless I take a pre-planned holiday. People still come and they respect my work time. If I had a regular office job, I couldn’t just fail to show up for work because some friends from out of town came by. If I wanted to take some time off, I’d have to request it in advance and makes plans for my work to be covered in my absence. Why? Because that’s what’s required to be sustainable in business. 

That’s not to say that you have to work on your business full time, you can absolutely work on your business part time. But you must then factor in that it will likely take you longer to achieve the same results as someone working full time. You can also take time off for holidays and to spend time with loved ones but you need to plan ahead so that your business doesn’t wither in your absence. It’s also important that whatever hours you do decide to work, you stick to them with a degree of consistency. Your audience and your clients need this from you because consistency equates to reliability in the mind of your customer. The professional spends time regularly mastering her art. The amateur creates the conditions for overwhelm and then swims in it.

If you are lacking certain skills to succeed in your business then it’s crucial that you schedule time to learn them. In this day and age there is little we can’t teach ourselves online. Break what you need to learn down into achievable chunks and make a plan. Look for the best teachers (not the ones who have the slickest marketing). I keep Wednesday mornings in my schedule free from coaching calls for this very purpose.

3. Maintain a professional environment

The professional ensures that her working environment is conducive to focus and that it is distraction free and contains the right tools for her trade. The amateur works on her bed in her PJs. The pro prioritises business equipment over other purchases making sure that she has the right tools for the job. A good computer, the right stationary, a dedicated desk, good quality earphones etc.

Having a professional environment to work on your business is essential. When we honour our work in this way, we honour the sacredness of our art. If your work in this world is important, which I truly believe it is, then create a space that honours that. If your work is in service to making the world a better place then have your working environment reflect that importance. Keep it clean, organised and clutter free.

“A practice has a space, and that space is sacred.

There’s a wonderful book called where women create. It’s a compilation of photos of studios and workshops where various female artists do their magic…Just look at these sacred spaces. What you’ll see is this: Order, Commitment, Passion, Love, Intensity, Beauty, Humility.”

 

4. Create pro systems

The pro has systems in place that are professional and create positive experience for the customer or client and that automate tasks that would otherwise take you out of your zone of genius. The pro sees a problem and puts in place a system or a process to fix it.

For example, I began using Zoom because it allows my clients to record our sessions. I used to use Skype with a Skype recorder but then I was always too busy to upload the recording and send it to the client. Switching to Zoom saved me time and benefited my clients.

I started using Calendly because I was always having issues with time-zone differences and because I can automate session reminders and the sending of pre-session questions and instructions. It saves me a lot of time and gives a much better experience for the end user.

Over the years, I have put in place systems for planning my week, for capturing new ideas, for planning content, for welcoming new clients, for invoicing, for capturing to dos, for goal setting, for financial tracking, for project planning and so on. Don’t worry if you feel like you’re winging it a little. Much of the systems I have introduced have come over the years as I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t and what wastes my time when I could be doing more meaningful things.

It’s also important to note that many of the 3rd-party solutions I use in my business come with a free version that you only need upgrade when you’re business warrants it.

So there you have it, 4 ways to further your journey from amateur to pro. Which of these feels like a priority for you? Where do you find yourself on this journey? Please do share in the comments below, I’d love to hear from you and if you enjoyed this post, you might want to check out the additional resources I’ve shared below.  

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Why It’s Sometimes Necessary to Break the Rules

Why It’s Sometimes Necessary to Break the Rules

“Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist.”

~ Pablo Picasso

As a business coach, I’m often asked about the rules we need to follow in order to become successful in business. It’s not uncommon for people to begin a question with “am I allowed to…?” or “is it acceptable to…?” or “Is it okay if I…? Questions around how to connect with clients, how to create and share content, how to price offerings, how to do just about anything within the context of building and growing a business.

It surprises people often that I rarely come down on the side of any given rule. I realised early on in my entrepreneurial journey that whilst we are constantly bombarded with different rules we should follow in order to be successful, there are in fact no rules. Allow me to explain.

When it comes to creating content, for example, we’re overwhelmed with rules from how many words to use to what kind of headlines work best and to the absolute necessity of using images, after all “a picture is worth a thousand words” so they say. In this article, we’re helpfully told the ideal length of everything online, backed by research including the fact that the ideal length of a blog post is 1,600 words. Any longer and people’s attention span can’t bear it, too much shorter and we risk not getting ranked by google and missing out on sales conversations and subscribers. That’s a pretty daunting word count for a newbie entrepreneur trying to figure out what the heck to write about in the first place.

But I have good news. For every so called rule we can find, it’s possible to find a rule that argues the opposite as well as someone who broke the rule and succeeded anyway. It’s my pleasure to introduce you to some of my favourite, highly successful, rule breakers.

There’s Seth Godin who regularly posts articles with a super short word count. You can read a recent one here that comes in at a measly 76 words but has had to date well over 7000 likes. Or Mark Manson, who has a readership of “millions”, whose recent post clocked in at 4,442 words.

It has often been argued that we should publish blog posts daily. While this article from another well respected expert on blogging vehemently argues the opposite. It never harmed Seth to post daily and there are countless others who have succeeded just fine without doing so.

Then there’s Authentic Business Coach George Kao, with nearly 6000 followers on Facebook, who flouts the “a picture is worth a thousand words” rule and rarely uses images in his Facebook Posts and/or (shock horror) his Facebook adverts and gets a great deal of traction regardless. In fact he argues that he actually gets better engagement by not using images, because the people who interact with his posts do so, not because they like a pretty picture, but because they appreciate the content.

Another area where people like to spout out rules like they are sacrosanct, is pricing. We’re told by some so-called experts to never discount our products or services as it devalues our work, yet the highly successful, Kelly Rae Roberts, holds sales frequently and I personally (and gratefully) have bought ALL of her painting courses at sale price! And heaven help anyone who breaks the charge what you’re worth rule and offers pay what you can pricing like established business experts, Tad Hargrave and Mark Silver do.

And then there’s branding. How often are we told that in order to succeed we must cultivate the perfect image, have the perfect website and a carefully crafted brand. Check out Steve Chandler, a renowned and highly successful coach and author whose website clearly hasn’t had a branding makeover any time recently (sorry Steve!) or back again to successful, Business Coach, George Kao who openly admits that he hasn’t paid any attention to branding as he’s built and grown his 6-figure business.

There are countless more “rules” and successful rule-breakers I could share but hopefully that’s enough to make the point that there are, in fact, no real rules to follow and more importantly that when we try to follow the rules, we end up tying ourselves in knots because when we focus on the rules, oftentimes, what we end up doing is give ourselves an out.

I would write a weekly post but I don’t have time to write 1600 words.

I would post on social media every day but I struggle to find nice images.

I would share my website but I’m waiting till I can afford to pay for branding.

Sound familiar? So what are we to do if we don’t follow the rules?

Instead of trying to follow a gazillion, conflicting and oftentimes, unhelpful set of rules instead we can tune in to what feels right for us. We can embrace the adage “better done than perfect.” We can ask ourselves, what rules am I trying to heed that are actually holding me up? We can embrace values and principles instead like integrity and connection. Like putting the person before the sale, like being of service and producing meaningful content. These are the things that hold up in the long term, not a cleverly crafted headline or slick branding. If we struggle to even adhere to the so-called rules, then you can bet that our audience tire of being on the receiving end of them.

Consider forgetting about the rules and create meaningful content (at whatever length your heart desires!) and share it with love. Price your offerings from the heart, with your clients and customers best interests in mind and above all be authentic in your business. Show up genuinely and with honesty and that will serve you and your bottom line far greater than any silly rule will. Having said all that, if there is a rule that you’ve been following in your business that is working for you, great keep at it. Heaven forbid that I should create a rule about breaking rules here!

What do you think about what I’ve shared here? Are there any rules you’ve been trying to follow without success, have you found certain rules have been stifling your ability to show fully in your business? Or have you found certain rules helpful? If so, please share them in the comments, I’d love to hear your perspective.

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The Importance of Having a Strong Point of View

The Importance of Having a Strong Point of View

“Point of view is you explaining what you do and why you do it the way you do it. It’s you explaining what your approach is and why you think it will work.”

~ Tad Hargrave

Hopefully you know what you do and who you help, but can you clearly articulate why you do what you do the way you do it? Can you clearly articulate what your approach is?

If, for example, you’re a relationship coach who helps people to have healthier relationships, are you able to say how exactly you help them to achieve this? Can you clearly state what your methodology is? Do you have clarity on your particular angle on what it takes to have a healthy relationship?

This is what it means to have a point of view. Put another way it’s your unique business perspective. It’s why people would choose you over someone else offering the same service. It’s what makes you different. It’s the particular steps you have your clients take, to achieve the result they desire, based on what you think the solution to their problem is.

Most people don’t start out being fully aware of their point of view, it’s something that evolves over time as we work with clients and deepen our understanding of our industry and area of expertise. It grows and expands as we do, so don’t despair if right now you’re not sure what your business point of view is.

Knowing your point of view and expressing it are two different things. 

Many online business owners struggle to have any voice at all when it comes to their business. Sharing what we believe online can feel daunting and leave us feeling vulnerable to attack or criticism. What if people don’t like what I have to say? Who cares what I think? Who am I to talk about these things anyway? I’m sure you know how it goes.

To avoid putting ourselves in the firing line of judgement, we stay small, say as little as possible and make sure that what we do say doesn’t have the potential to upset or offend anyone. We think the worst-case scenario is saying the wrong thing, but what so often happens is that we say barely anything at all (which is far worse) or at best what we do say is bland, mediocre and ineffectual.

Not ideal, if we are to have any hope of being noticed amongst the gazillion other businesses out there. And I get it, it can feel scary to put something out there that could have people shaking their heads in disagreement or that could turn them off so instantly that they want nothing more to do with you.

But here’s the thing, we absolutely want to polarize people with our opinion. We want people to hear our message and to either resonate with it so strongly that they become our fans for life or not resonate it with, so much so, that they can’t reach for the unsubscribe button fast enough.

Having a strong point of view is how we stand out. It’s how we get noticed. It’s how we get referred on to other people. It’s how we have an impact. It’s what we become known for. It’s how we get a true and deep sense of fulfilment from our work. When we fail to express a strong point of view about our work or the problem it solves, we become invisible, we fail to get clients and, not only that, we fail to be true to ourselves. Trying to please everybody sucks just as much in business as it does in our personal lives.

Perhaps you’ve been burned for expressing strong opinions in the past. I know that the opinionated young woman of my twenties definitely got the message that being too opinionated was not welcome. But we’re not talking about being controversial for the sake of it or being inflammatory just to get a response. There’s far enough of that on the internet already.

What we are talking about is sharing what you stand for and what you stand against. We’re talking about your point of view about what you do, which is rooted in your personal and professional experiences of the service or solution you provide.

There are a several things you can do to start to uncover and refine your point of view and below are a few strategies I’ve collected over the years.

In her Female Business Academy class, Selling with Soul, Business Coach, Heidi Taylor invites us to write out 2 lists (with a minimum of 12 things on each). What do I stand for? and what do I stand against? Think about these questions in the context of your work, your industry and the wider world. What do you hear other practitioners in your industry saying that you completely disagree with? What do you hate hearing about your modality or service.

To give you an example from my business, I stand for marketing with integrity and putting the person before the sale. I stand against “6 figures in 6 weeks” promises and manipulating people to buy by playing on their fear of missing out. How about you? What would you put on your lists?

Rebecca Tracey of The Uncaged Life recommends writing out a rant and gives these instructions: “Imagine you’re sitting down with your best friend over a tea. You’re talking about your industry and your clients and all the ways that they are struggling. Why, in your opinion, are they still struggling? How has the industry let them down? What do they need to know to help them move past this? How is your way different than what they have tried before? What do they need to hear to give them hope?”

I recommend using content creation as a tool to begin uncovering and articulating your point of view. Rather than creating content you think people want to read or creating similar content to what others in your industry are sharing, instead consider what makes you different, consider your particular approach to the problem and share content relating to that. Have the purpose of your content be to share your perspective rather than get the sale. Have it be a conversation with your right-fit people rather than trying to appeal to the masses. To see an example of a blog post that clearly shares my point of view head here.

And if you’re not yet convinced of the importance of having a strong point of view, I leave you with these words from Tad Hargrave, author of the e-book, Point of View Marketing:

“When you put out a clear point of view, your approach will attract people who are already aligned with what you believe; people who are open to what you have to say and ready to work with you.

It’s like a clear homing beacon, a bright lighthouse that cuts through the rain and the fog indicating where safe harbour is. They see the lighthouse and think, “Aha! Finally. We’ve arrived.” 

So what’s your point of view? I’d love to hear from you, so if you feel called to please share something in the comments about your business point of view. And if the idea of using content creation as a means to articulate and refine your point of view, then you might be interested in my personal challenge for April detailed below. 

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Why You Struggle to Create Content Consistently and What to Do About It

Why You Struggle to Create Content Consistently and What to Do About It

“Small disciplines repeated with consistency every day lead to great achievements gained slowly over time.”

~ John C. Maxwell

So you know that content creation is important. You don’t need convincing that it makes good business sense to consistently share meaningful and useful content with your audience. You’ve heard that you need to be sending a regular newsletter, publishing weekly blog posts and showing up consistently on social media but try as you might, you just can’t seem to make good on your content creation promises.

I’m here to shed some light as to why that might be. There are in fact a number of very real obstacles to you becoming consistent in your content creation, that, when understood, become easier to overcome. In this post I’m going to share with you what they are and how to finally achieve the consistency you’ve been yearning for.

1. A propensity towards the shallow

We live in a time where shallow living is the norm. Smart phones, social media and round the clock connectivity all serve to keep us in a fractured, scattered and distracted state of mind. Nowhere does this show up more than in our day-to-day business lives. As solopreneurs, working from home, it’s all too easy to be seduced by the shiny appeal of checking facebook, watching YouTube videos or falling down the internet rabbit hole. We think nothing of having ten tabs open on our internet browser with social media and email notifications blinking on our screens every few minutes. Let me tell you now that it’s impossible to create meaningful content under these conditions.

“Social media has colonized what was once a sacred space occupied by emptiness: the space reserved for thought and creativity.”

~ Mahershala Ali

Content creation requires going deep, getting into a flow of writing, allowing our minds to become engrossed with an idea or argument and giving ourselves adequate time to create. To work deeply, we must eradicate the shallow. Turn off your email and social media notifications (there are apps for this), close down the internet (there are apps for this too!) and give yourself a chunk of distraction free time to do deep.

2. A lack of schedule

A desire to create and publish daily content for our business is not enough to make it so. If we want to create content everyday (or fairly consistently), we absolutely have to schedule it in. I know that for some people this is a struggle, they want to write when the feeling takes them, they prefer to wait until inspiration strikes, yet some of the most accomplished and prolific creators of our time will testify to the fact that this is not how it works.

“We’re all nothing without the Muse. But the pro has learned that the goddess prizes labor and dedication beyond any theatrical seeking of her favours. The professional does not wait for inspiration; he acts in anticipation of it. He knows that when the Muse sees his butt in the chair she will deliver.”

~ Steven Pressfield

So rather than waiting for inspiration to strike, schedule a chunk of time in your diary to show up and create. Whether it’s writing, making videos or recording audios, the solution is the same. Make sacred space to create and then honour it.

 

“Amateurs sit and wait for inspiration, the rest of us just get up and go to work.”

~ Stephen King

3. An inappropriate environment

Deep work requires sacred space and as well as scheduled time, free from distraction, we want to be sure that our environment is conducive to creativity. Take a moment now to look at your workspace. How does it make you feel? Is it cluttered and disorganised or is it clean and tidy? Does it feel like a good space to create your best work or is it a disaster zone for creativity?

Make sure that the place you choose to create is conducive to your concentrated creativity. If that means, going to your local library to get the peace and quiet you need, do it. If it means spending time reorganising and decluttering your office space, do it. The rewards are worth it.

4. A case of bad timing

Are you trying to create content at the wrong time of day? Did you know that for most people, our most productive hours are first thing but that many people waste energy on more meaningless tasks like checking Facebook or emailing people.

If you, like me, experience a slump in energy straight after lunch and that’s when you usually try to create content, then no wonder you’re struggling. Be mindful of when you feel most energised and creative and schedule your content creation time accordingly.

For me it’s definitely first thing, so before I do anything else (especially before going on the internet to check social media or my email inbox) I have a 60-90 minute (depending on other commitments) chunk of time dedicated to content creation scheduled in my online calendar.

On Monday that’s usually taken up with my weekly e-letter, on other days it might be blog post writing or crafting long form social media posts. The content itself doesn’t matter, sticking to the commitment of creating content every day does.  

“Do the hard jobs first. The easy jobs will take care of themselves.”

~ Dale Carnegie

Because creating content often requires more of us than other business tasks, it makes sense for us to tackle it first, because if we put off the hard job until later in the day, we’re far less likely to do it. Trust me when I tell you that getting your content creation done first thing feels amazing and sets you up for a much more productive and fulfilling day.

5. Misguided expectations

One of the biggest barriers I see to consistent content creation is actually internal rather than external. We often place all manner of expectations on our content creation efforts which only serves to make content creation all that much harder to achieve.

When we want the content we produce to be perfect and we become attached to the outcome of our efforts (for example, number of likes, shares, comments from our audience), we make creating content that much harder. You wouldn’t believe how many people fail to create content because of fears that it won’t be good enough or well received.

If we can instead focus on being present to our creative process rather than attach to the outcome of it, creating content becomes a whole lot more enjoyable, a whole lot more fulfilling. This then allows us to create more consistently and in turn makes us better at creating content. Consider how impossible it is to master our craft, if we avoid doing it because we want it to be perfect from the get go.

So there you have it, 5 things that could be standing in the way of you creating content more consistently and what to do to overcome them. I’d love to hear from you which of these you relate to the most and also do share in the comments below if there are things getting in the way of you creating consistently that I haven’t shared here. 

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